Unconditional Love

Isn't that what we all really want, when it comes down to it?

And does wanting it all the time from nearly everyone you meet (or at least most of them) make me one far too needy a person?

I suppose there's the rubbish theory that I want people to love me unconditionally, then it's probably my job to let go of the conditions under which I'll love them. That seems a bit extreme, doesn't it?